The Closure, The Crown & The Calling In

Healing, Homework, and The CoochieVerse

Author

Nikki Brown
September 15, 2025

Hey Sacred Siblings,

This week, I did something tender.

Something holy.

Something heartbreaking.

I released a 10-year situationship…a long, winding soul-tie that I had been hoping, wishing and praying would turn into a real life fairy tale.

On paper? We were never committed.

In my heart? Shit…I was his without question; waiting and wishing he’d one day choose me. See me and all the love I wanted to pour into and onto him.

Choose me fully. Publicly. Powerfully.

But that day never came.

And you know what did come from it all?

A deeper devotion to myself.

Illusion Is Not Intimacy

I now see how I stayed in something that lacked clarity because I hadn’t yet claimed that clairvoyance for myself.

That’s not shame—it’s shadow work.

It’s Disney dreams and broken princess promises & programming.

It’s the way many of us were taught to prove our worth instead of living it out loud.

So This Week, I’m Calling In The One…

And guess who it is? Me.

I am no longer begging for crumbs from a table that wants to starve my soul.

I am no longer entertaining potential.

I am no longer subscribing to “almost” love.

I am the one I’ve been waiting for, so from this place, anything else is overflow.

Not emptiness. Not ache. Not confusion.

To Those in the Middle of a Goodbye…

If you’re walking away from something old, unspoken, or unsatisfying, I want you to know:

You’re not crazy. You’re courageous.

You deserve reciprocity, reverence, and radical truth—not one day, but right now, TODAY!

COMING SEPTEMBER 27, 2025

The CoochieVerse: Mars & Venus Unite

A LIVE Experience of Vulnerability, Sexual Healing & Gender Harmony

NYC | 11AM EST

Men + Women in sacred dialogue about the truths we’ve been hiding & the pleasure we’ve been craving.

This event was born out of my own relationship cycles, revelations, and rebirth.

And I want you in the room.

It’s time we talked. Really talked.

About the wounds, the wants, the wonder and the ways we miss each other in love.

Because healing starts when Mars and Venus sit down at the same table.

🗣 Your Homework

Forward this email to someone who’s currently grieving a love that didn’t bloom in the way they imagined.

Or who just needs to know: you can be heartbroken and whole at the same time.

With softness, sovereignty, and sexy new standards,

Nikki Brown

The Life Doula | Founder of The Coochie Coach LLC | Creator of The CoochieVerse™
📞 917.406.1141
✨ IG:@thecoochiecoach

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