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Homecomings, First Times & The Legacy I’m Becoming

Homecomings, First Times & The Legacy I’m Becoming

A Weekly Dispatch from Nikki Brown, The Coochie Coach

Nikki Brown
October 20, 2025

Hey Beloveds,

This past week has been a masterclass in divine alignment.

From sacred nostalgia to future-building visions, I’ve been walking through spaces that remind me who I am, who I’ve been, and who I’m becoming.

🎓 Back on Campus, Forward With Purpose

I just returned from my 30th college Homecoming and baby, it stirred something deep.

It wasn’t just about seeing old classmates or reliving dorm room laughs. It was a spiritual nudge:

“What legacy will I leave behind for the institution that helped shape me?”

This weekend, I got clear that I don’t want to just celebrate my alma mater.

I want to sow into its future.

✨ A scholarship?

✨ A fund for Black birthing justice?

✨ A student-led doula cohort?

Something is rising. And I know it’s time to birth it.

Because legacy isn’t just what we leave when we die, it’s what we pour into while we’re here.

👩🏾‍🤝‍👨🏾 First Cousins, First Times

This week I also found myself at a conference, spending intentional time with my first cousin for the first time in our adult lives.

There’s something deeply affirming about reconnecting with family when you’re both whole, healed, and human.

We shared stories. Reflected on roots. And reminded each other that blood is both biology and a choice.

It was a reminder that sometimes, healing happens through presence, not performance.

Just being together was the ceremony.

🏠 My Babies, My Mirrors

Meanwhile, back at the ranch aka home, my 28-year-old and my 11-year-old held it down for two weekends in a row.

Let me tell you something:

It’s one thing to raise children.

It’s another to watch them become responsible, loving versions of themselves in real-time.

I’ve never been more proud of the balance between them.

And as a mother, it reminded me:

“They don’t need a perfect parent. They need a present one and one who models joy, boundaries, and rest.”

✨ COOCHIE CORNER TIP OF THE WEEK

“Legacy is a Daily Decision”

Want to start leaving a legacy right now? Try this:

1. Write a one-line mission for your life, put it on your mirror.

2. Tell your kids (or someone younger) one lesson you’ve learned the hard way.

3. Give $5 to something or someone who reflects your values.

4. Share your story so your journey becomes someone else’s permission slip.

5. Name something you want to build before the year ends.

Legacy isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it whispers: “Keep going. You matter.”

🌺 The Coochie Con Returns to Harlem

Saturday, November 1 at 11 AM EST
After years of sacred pause, The Coochie Con is back, reborn and ready to reignite feminine power. Join us for a day of womb wisdom, wealth, and wellness in the heart of Harlem.

🎟️ Tickets: Register here.
✨ Theme: Rebirth in Harlem: Returning to the Womb, Remembering the Wealth.

🌸 New Offering: Doula Wealth Wednesdays

I’m bringing back Doula Wealth Wednesdays, a weekly space to help doulas and womb workers birth abundance through service, strategy, and spirit.

Join me every Wednesday at 7PM EST on Zoom as we elevate your income, package your services with clarity, and build a business that sustains you between births.

Join me here.

🗣️ STAY TUNED:

🎤 The podcast season is now back

📚 Fall journaling prompts & womb rituals incoming

🧘🏾‍♀️ Doula-centered digital offerings for 2026 cohort pre-registration

With love, legacy & Libra softness,

Nikki Brown

Life Doula | Founder | Proud Mama & Legacy Midwife

📞 917.406.1141 | 💻

✨ IG: @thecoochiecoach

The Coochie Corner: Your Space for Questions and Tips

Welcome to The Coochie Corner, your go-to spot for advice, insights, and a little laughter!

💬 Got question for the Coochie Coach? Submit it here, and you might see it featured in our next newsletter!

✨ Looking for tips? We’ve got you covered! From practical self-care advice to empowering ideas, this corner is all about helping you thrive.

✨ 5 Ways to Start and Leave a Luminous Legacy

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1.⁠ ⁠Live Out Loud Not Just for You, But for Who’s Watching

Every time you choose yourself, every time you heal publicly or love unapologetically, someone watching is given permission to do the same.

Legacy begins the moment you stop hiding your light.

💬 Ask yourself: “If someone were to follow my example today, what would they learn about freedom?”

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2.⁠ ⁠Name Your Wisdom + Document It

You’ve lived. You’ve learned. You’ve led. Don’t take it all with you.

Write your truths. Record voice notes. Start your memoir. Create a guide.

Your life lessons are sacred medicine for someone else’s survival.

📓 Try this: Start a “Legacy Journal” titled “What I Know For Sure”, add 1 page every week.

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3.⁠ ⁠Invest in the Future You May Never See

Whether it’s money, mentorship, time, or intention, plant seeds today for gardens you may never walk through.

Support someone else’s dream. Start a fund. Mentor a younger version of you.

Legacy is generosity that echoes.

💸 Action step: Choose one cause, school, or soul to invest in this month.

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4.⁠ ⁠Transform Your Pain Into Purpose

The healing you’ve done wasn’t just for you, it was for the ones coming after you.

Turn your story into a platform. Turn your scars into strategy. Turn your survival into sacred blueprint.

🔥 What if your most painful chapter became someone else’s liberation manual?

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5.⁠ ⁠Be Remembered for How You Made People Feel

Beyond what you build or brand, your energy is what stays.

Speak life. Show up. Apologize when needed. Celebrate people while they’re still here.

A luminous legacy glows from the inside out.

💖 Practice this: Send 3 unexpected “thank you for existing” messages this week.

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Thank you for being part of our journey—stay inspired, stay curious, and we’ll see you next month with more to empower and uplift!