My Mother’s Day Weekend

A Burst of Life, Culture, and Self-Care

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Nikki Brown
May 11, 2025

Mother’s Day weekend arrived for me with a burst of life—quite literally. It began with the call that every doula knows can come at any moment. One of my clients had gone into labor, and with a heart full of purpose and a bag already packed, I rushed to her side.

I spent hours by her side, holding space for her courage, whispering affirmations, and witnessing the miracle of life. After all the steady breathing, soothing words, and gentle guidance, the world welcomed a radiant baby girl. I watched as another mother took her first steps into a sacred new chapter, and it was a reminder of why I do this work—why I am a doula. It is a privilege to stand at the edge of life, watching it begin with strength, beauty, and the power of motherhood.

After such a profound beginning, I knew I needed to pour back into myself. So, I gifted myself a day of rest. No alarms, no rushing—just quiet, peace, and the soft embrace of self-care. My body, mind, and spirit needed this stillness because, as a woman who supports others so deeply, I understand the importance of pausing to support myself.

But the weekend didn’t stop there. I traded the calm for color, the quiet for culture, joining my good friend Michelle and a vibrant group of friends in Brooklyn for the Haitian Cultural Day Parade. The streets were alive with music, joy, and the proud display of heritage. I danced, I laughed, and I let the energy of the parade fill my soul. There is something undeniably beautiful about being surrounded by culture, by people celebrating who they are, and by the reminder that we are all part of a larger story.

Finally, I ended the weekend with a sacred commitment to myself—a day of pampering. As a woman who pours so much into others, I have learned that my own cup must remain full. I indulged in self-care, choosing to honor myself in the same way I honor the mothers I support.

This Mother’s Day weekend was a beautiful reminder of the balance I have built in my life—a balance between giving life, celebrating life, and nurturing my own.

To all the mothers, those who nurture, those who uplift, and those who pour love into this world—may you always remember to pour love into yourself too.

Happy Mother’s Day. Every day.

With love and reflection,

Nikki Brown

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Navigating the Pain of Miscarriage

The loss of a pregnancy can bring a profound sense of grief, disappointment, and emotional discomfort. Beyond the physical aspects, miscarriage is also a spiritual experience. Here are spiritual tips to support your healing journey, honoring your womb, your emotions, and your spirit.

1.⁠ ⁠Honor the Spirit of Your Baby:
 • Create a Sacred Space: Set up a small altar with a candle, flowers, and any symbolic items that resonate with you, such as crystals, a baby blanket, or a feather.
 • Write a Letter to Your Baby: Express your love, hopes, and sadness. Share what you wanted for them and how they will always be a part of you.
  • Name the Spirit: If you feel called, give your baby a name as a way to honor their brief existence.

2.⁠ ⁠Embrace Sacred Rest and Stillness:
 • Honor Your Grief Cycle: Allow yourself to cry, to feel numb, to be angry, and to laugh. Grief is not linear.
 • Practice Silence: Take moments of quiet to simply be with your emotions, without needing to fix or explain them.
  • Sacred Baths: Prepare a spiritual bath with sea salt, rose petals, lavender, and a few drops of frankincense oil. Allow the water to cleanse your energy and bring comfort.

3.⁠ ⁠Reclaim Your Womb’s Power:
  • Wear Womb-Centered Jewelry: Consider wearing a crystal like rose quartz, moonstone, or carnelian over your womb area for energetic support.
  • Creative Expression: Paint, journal, dance, or sing to move the energy of grief through your body.
  • Reclaim Joy Slowly: Allow yourself to engage in gentle pleasure, whether it’s through a favorite song, a comforting meal, or a walk in nature.

May you find comfort in knowing that your grief is sacred, and your spirit is powerful. Your womb is a place of divine creation, and even in moments of loss, you are worthy of love, honor, and profound healing.

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